A Butch By Any Other Name
byI am butch. I guess. Butch by default? Butch because I am not femme. Definitely not femme. So. Not. Femme. Why is it easier for…
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Does Trans Fashion Differ from Butch?
byI love the phrase that Butch Voices uses to describe the primary universe of folks it convenes as: “masculine of center.” Not that it…
Butch Voices Rolling into Town
byI’m pleased to share photos by Syd London from the recent Butch Voices fundraiser held at the historic Stonewall Inn. You may not know…
Cool $95 Glasses with Lenses?!
byThanks to Bayker whose response to my post on the fount of optical abundance cites a another fount called WarbyParker.com. It’s an on-line company…
dapperQs Were Born Outside the Box
byIf you have made your way to dapperQ you are, by definition, an explorer. I’ll bet you were born coloring outside the lines. You…
Let’s Talk About Breasts
byYou heard me right. I’m not talking about other folk’s breasts. I’m talking about yours and mine. I want to open a conversation about…
Weddings are Killing Us!
byI’ve gotten two heartbreaking e-mails in the last 12 hours from dapperQ’s reaching out for help when it comes to weddings. Both authors have…